Domestic Violence Awareness Initiative

Do things at home ever get too hot to handle?
Do you ever feel unsafe in your own home?
Do you ever feel like you need to leave?
Do you ever get hurt if dinner is late?
Does any of this sound familiar?
You are not alone and it’s not your fault.
Help is available.

If you are being abused... 

It is important to know that abuse can happen to anyone - rich or poor, from any religious, racial, or ethnic background and any educational level. You do not have to be married to be abused. You may be hurt or frightened by your spouse or significant other, someone you have dated, a lover, a relative, or just someone you know.

As you read this, you may feel confused, sad, angry or even a bit ashamed.

You are not alone!

What happened to you is, unfortunately, very common. Domestic violence happens to all kinds of people, from all walks of life: waitresses, celebrities, doctors, nurses, bus drivers, etc. It is a problem that also affects the young and elderly.  Breaking out of the cycle of violence is often difficult. You may still care very much for this person, and hope they will change.

Domestic violence does not go away on its own. It tends to get worse and more frequent with time, and the effects on your children from witnessing the violence can be devastating. 

What You Should Do

• If at a hospital or clinic, let the medical staff know about the abuse and/or that you were injured by someone you know.  Request a copy of the medical report before you leave.
• Discuss with friends, relatives, neighbors and co-workers about the abuse.
• Develop a safety plan and find someone who can help you in an emergency.  They may be able to store extra sets of items you will need if you have to leave in a hurry. 
• If you have called the police you have the right to file a REPORT with the police, even if the abuser has fled from the scene.  Request one from the officer, and be sure to get the number of the report. 
• If you do NOT call the police, make an incident report at your local police station. 
• Have someone take photos of ALL injuries.

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